Teen dating violence affects far more young people than many families realize, and advocates say it often goes unnoticed because the warning signs can look like typical teenage behavior. February is “Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month,” a national effort to educate communities about abuse that can begin as early as middle and high school. Research shows that one in three teens in the United States will experience physical, emotional or digital abuse from a dating partner before reaching adulthood.

Teen dating violence can take many forms, including: emotional manipulation, controlling behavior, verbal abuse, digital harassment through texting or social media, and physical or sexual violence. These experiences can have lasting effects on a young person’s mental health and in their future ability to form healthy relationships later in life. 

Throughout February, Sojourn Shelter & Services is encouraging parents, educators and community members to talk openly with teens about the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors. The organization is also working to raise awareness about common warning signs, such as excessive jealousy, constant monitoring through phones or social media, pressure to isolate from friends or family, and fear of upsetting a partner.

Sojourn provides prevention education through school presentations, parent workshops and community outreach efforts designed to help teens recognize abuse and understand how to seek help. Free and confidential support services are also available to teens and families who may be experiencing dating violence or who are concerned about someone they know.

Sojourn Shelter & Services is a nonprofit domestic violence shelter and advocacy organization that has served central Illinois for more than 50 years. More information is available at www.help4dv.org, or by calling 217-726-5100.